I run a small preschool with 46 kids. Three rooms, lots of paint on tiny hands, and a front desk that used to be buried in paper. Money days were the worst. My stomach would drop on the 1st. I’d print invoices, leave voicemails, and chase checks that lived in car cup holders. That routine is exactly what pushed me to the point where I finally stopped chasing tuition and moved our billing into software.
So I changed. I moved our billing into software. And honestly? It saved my sanity.
Here’s the thing—I didn’t switch fast. I tested a few. I used Brightwheel Billing for 14 months. I also tried Procare and HiMama for a bit. I’ll tell you what felt smooth, what made me mutter under my breath, and the real stuff that happened.
Curious about why Brightwheel ended up my front-runner? Their own help center walks through the nuts-and-bolts benefits of Brightwheel Billing in plain language that mirrors what I saw in daily use.
The Setup: Not fun, but not awful
I spent one quiet Friday loading families. Coffee, spreadsheet, deep breath. I:
- Imported names, rates, and schedules
- Set tuition plans (full-time, part-time, sibling discount)
- Turned on auto-pay for families that wanted it
- Added late fee rules and a “grace day” (because Mondays happen)
If the idea of wrangling all that data gives you hives, my field test of three data-entry tools breaks down which ones actually make import day painless.
It took about four hours. I was slow because I triple-checked. By Monday, bills went out at 8 a.m. I braced for calls. I got… three. All tiny things.
You know what? I could breathe.
Real Moments That Sold Me
These are not “demo” stories. These happened in my center.
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Split Billing That Actually Worked
We have one child with two homes. Parents split costs 60/40. I set each parent’s share once. The system sent two invoices. No more “Who owes what?” texts. In December, Dad changed cards. The system still split it right. I did nothing. I just watched the ledger update. -
Subsidy + Co-Pay Without the Headache
We take state pay. The state check hit late one month. I posted a credit when the check arrived, marked the co-pay, and the balance for the parent stayed clear. No double charge. No awkward front desk talk. I also attached the approval letter to the child’s file, so I didn’t hunt for it later. -
Late Pickup Fee, No Drama
We close at 5:30. One sweet kid left at 5:47. I had a rule: $1 per minute after 5:35. The fee posted by itself when I marked the time. Mom saw it on her phone, paid the same night, and even sent a smiley. We were fine. -
Failed ACH That Fixed Itself
One parent’s bank transfer bounced. Old account. The system retried, sent her a note, and she updated the info in the app. I didn’t have to write a long email. I just checked the ledger the next day. Paid. Done. -
Tax Season Took 10 Minutes
In January, parents needed year-end totals for taxes. I usually made coffee and cried a little. This time, I ran one report. Parents also pulled their own statements from the app. I answered two questions. That was it.
What I Like (and why my front desk smiles now)
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Auto-pay actually gets used
More than half of our parents turned it on. My Mondays got quiet. Payments posted like clockwork. -
Batch invoicing is fast
I send 40+ invoices in one go. It takes maybe 10 minutes. I do it before snack time and still have time to tie shoes. -
Parent app is clear
Parents see what they owe and why. Fees, credits, and notes are right there. Fewer hallway chats. -
Reports that my accountant understands
I export a clean CSV for QuickBooks. No weird column names. It balances. -
Credits and discounts stick
Sibling discounts roll over each week. Vacation credits post when I add the dates. I don’t keep a sticky note stack anymore.
What Bugged Me (because nothing is perfect)
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Refunds feel clunky
If I refund part of a payment, the path is not clear. I wish the steps were labeled better. I’ve clicked the wrong button twice. -
Changing schedules mid-cycle is messy
When a child moves from part-time to full-time on a Wednesday, I have to think through proration. The software helps, but it’s not “one click and done.” I still do a quick calculator check. -
Parents who switch payment methods can create ghost accounts
Happened twice. Two parent profiles for one person. Support fixed it, but I had a mini panic. -
Batch edits need more oomph
If I want to raise tuition $5 for one room only, I end up doing a few manual changes. It’s fine, but I wish it were smoother.
Money Talk: Fees, cards, and what I learned
Card fees are higher. Bank transfers (ACH) are cheaper. I let families choose. Some families use cards for points. Some use ACH to save a bit. I can pass fees to parents or eat the cost. I tested both.
Here’s what stuck:
- I absorbed ACH fees; I passed card fees to families
- I nudged folks toward auto-pay and ACH, and many switched
- My monthly fee spend dropped after month three
Time saved also mattered. I got back about five hours a week. That is nap-time checks done on time and calm Fridays.
Support and Real People
Chat support answered me fast most days. Morning was quicker than late afternoon. They sent short steps, not long scripts. When I sent a screenshot, they got it right away. I felt heard. I know that sounds cheesy, but when billing goes weird, you want a human.
Quick Compare: What fit my center
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Brightwheel Billing
Best mix for us. Clean parent app. Reports that make sense. Billing rules were strong enough without being messy. -
Procare
Powerful. Deeper settings. It felt heavier. If you have many sites and a full admin team, you may like it more than I did. -
HiMama
Lovely design. Billing was simpler when I used it. Great for centers that want easy, not lots of knobs to turn.
I also looked at Kangarootime and Sandbox. Both felt solid. I didn’t run them long enough to judge billing head-on, so I won’t pretend I did. For an outside perspective on evaluating childcare tech, I found this concise checklist from QuSoft surprisingly helpful. And if your admin plate also includes facilities upkeep, my year-long trial with CAFM software shows how the right platform can declutter maintenance just as cleanly as good billing clears tuition chaos.
For a broader feature-by-feature snapshot while I was still deciding, I leaned on this independent TendlyCare comparison of Brightwheel, Procare, and HiMama to sanity-check my own notes.
Who Should Use This
- Small to mid-size centers that want fewer paper checks
- Programs with subsidy plus private pay
- Directors who like clear reports and parent self-serve
If you’re a big group with custom rules all over, you might want something with deeper layers. If you’re a tiny home daycare, a lighter tool could be fine, but auto-pay still helps a lot.
Little Things I Didn’t Expect
- Parents paid faster when the invoice looked clean
- I stopped reminding people in hallways (way less awkward)
- My food vendor got paid on time because cash flow was steady
- I now do billing with a mug of tea, not a knot in my chest
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Wish List
- Cleaner partial refund flow
- Easier bulk rate changes by room or program
- A “what changed this week” view for tuition plans
Final Word
I used childcare billing software because I was tired. I stayed because it worked.
Was it perfect? No. Did it make my month run